Setup Database Mail in SQL Server 2008
Your applications can use SQL Server 2005 and higher to send emails using its Database Mail feature. This article describes how to configure Database Mail in SQL Server 2008.
Configure Database Mail

4. In the Select Configuration Task page, click Next. When asked to enable the Database Mail feature click Yes.Testing Database Mail

1. In the SQL Server Management Studio, expand the Management folder, right click Database Mail and click Send Test E-Mail.
2. In the Send Test E-Mail window, fill in the To field with your email address and click Send Test E-Mail.
4. If you have not received any mail, check the Database Mail Log. Launch the SQL Server Management Studio, expand the Management folder, right click Database Mail and click View Database Mail Log.Using Database Mail


Type the command below in a query window.
EXEC msdb.dbo.sp_send_dbmail @profile_name = 'Alert', @recipients = 'johndoe@acme.local', @subject = 'Test Mail', @body = 'This is a test message'
The sp_send_dbmail stored procedure has a lot more parameter but those used above should be enough to get you started.












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